When encountering daycare for the first time, many children can be stressed. The attitudes and abilities of the caregivers can affect this transition both positively and negatively. Though not always an option, many parents make their child's transition much easier by putting the child with a member of the family or other close acquaintance. Admittedly, not everyone has relatives or family members they can use but there are other options for those parents.

If the parent knows anyone else who has children that have attended daycare, they can converse with the child's parents about that experience. It is possible that you will receive both unfavorable and positive comments about certain choices and you can use both to help aid in your decision. If all the feedback you get is negative, obviously you'll want to avoid looking into that facility, although if you encounter good and bad accounts from different parents, take into consideration the fact that what is a great experience for one child can be a horrible one for another.

If this method does not work for you, then you can try the Department of Social Services, which will give you a list of licensed daycare providers. A source many parents overlook is the child's own physician who may be able to provide recommendations based on his or her discussions with parents. If none of those tactics work, try a phone book or newspaper.] Once you have chosen a provider, take your child to meet them because most providers will wish to meet with you prior to the child being enrolled. This helps ease the eventual sense of trauma that the child will feel entering the provider's care because it gives a sense of familiarity.

Most children young enough to enter daycare are also young enough to still have an item that brings them a sense of security, and that item can be sent with them with the provider's permission. The first several weeks are particularly hard on a child getting used to the change, and this will help them adjust more quickly. Another tool parents use to help their child feel at ease is giving them a picture of home - usually of a family member - though parents should use caution because sometimes this only worsens the sense of loss that your child feels. If at all possible, try to stay for a little while in the mornings to help them settle into an activity - this will make the transition easier. Children are also comforted by the knowledge that you will be back at a certain time, so if you can make and keep such a vow to them, you should. By having you arrive on time every day to pick them up from daycare at the time you specify, your child will not experience such a lack in security as some frequently do.

The most important thing you can do for your child is to send them off in a positive manner. If you are happy, the child will have greater confidence that being left behind is not the most horrible thing that could happen. After a steady row of prolonged crying - usually for about fifteen minutes - children bounce back and are at play. Simply say good-bye and walk out the door, you'll be able to give them hugs and kisses for being so brave when you come back.

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