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Written by Webmaster
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Thursday, 31 July 2008 |
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Your newborn goes through a lot right after he's born. Faced with the sudden transformation in his habitat, an infant often experiences extreme stress as he tries to adjust to it. It is little wonder that he has to struggle a lot in the first few weeks. Bringing the baby home is a harrowing experience for you and the baby. The entire house will be in shambles. You just have to give it maximum priority and the adjustment with your infant will be perfect if you follow the tips given.
You do not know the effect your crooning voice has on your baby. He feels he is on familiar territory since he is used to your voice while he was growing inside you. At the time of his birth he is already strengthened by your familiar voice to lead him on. Being familiar with your voice he will be able to focus on what you are trying to communicate.
A sound attracts an infant more easily than any object. Look at him while you talk so that he is attentive even though he cannot see you that clearly yet. If you communicate with your infant correctly, making eye contact while talking to or massaging him, you will soon see how he reciprocates.
Your baby relaxes in your arms when you caress him. This would have a soothing effect on both of you and make the bond even stronger. Take lessons on infant massage techniques and implement the same on your newborn on a regular basis. One cannot deny the benefits of infant massage. It helps the physical and psychological well being like sound sleep and relief from colic pain and constipation.
When you hold your baby, he not only feels comfortable but also secure. He should thrive when in physical contact with you. Carry him in a sling or carrier always. Your baby is familiar with your body warmth and heart beat from before. Cuddled up in your arms he experiences all these sensations which make him feel secure. If you want to do a few things around the house and also have the comfort of your baby with you, carry him in a sling.
Be alert about the needs of your baby. Though it may disturb you, crying is the only way he can draw your attention to his needs. He cries when he's hungry, when he's wet, when he hurts or doesn't feel well. He will cry when he just doesn't know what else to do.
Find out what is ailing him immediately when he cries. Don't resort to tears and waste time. Take him in your arms, cuddle him and try to find out what is ailing him. Knowing the reason behind all his discomfort will empower you to solve it fast.
Attending to all the needs of your baby at this stage is not spoiling him in any way. Regularly responding to the requirements of your baby will help create a strong attachment between both of you. New moms need to get used to their babies first for a perfect rapport. When the bond between you and your newborn is created, express your love through all his senses. It will relax him immensely.
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